Music and Rituals 

Music is unknowingly and subconsciously intertwined into everyone’s everyday life. Not only is it part of everyday life music also signifies important days or moments. Interestingly, music is used during specific life events universally around the world. It is cool to think that most cultures will listen to music during the same ceremonies. The music and tradition will differ; however, the meaning remains the same.

 

As discussed in class, music has the potential to help people celebrate, unite, grieve, socialize, and, more! Music is essential during these rituals such as weddings, funerals, graduations, holidays, and religious ceremonies. These rituals and ceremonies would not be what they are without music, seemingly kind of awkward. 

I often associate songs or music with a moment in time. An example of this is the song that was played during my high school graduation. Any time I hear that particular song I feel as though I have been transported back to that moment. I remember what I was wearing and the mixed emotions coursing through my body.  I can recall the nervous feeling in my stomach, the sadness as a chapter of my life was ending, and the excitement as I was about to move to a new country. I remember feeling all these emotions all at once. As I sat in the grand Queen Elizabeth Theatre in downtown Vancouver I was surrounded by my classmates, family, and friends. While waiting for the graduation ceremony begin to, I remember hearing the song “I Will Remember You" by Sarah Mclachlan.  

Another ritual that I have personally experienced in my life is weddings. I come from a very large European family that loves huge weddings filled with dancing and music. The weddings are typically held in a large space to allow the entire family to attend. They often last late into the night with everyone enjoying each other’s company. I especially recall one of my aunts’ weddings that took place at the Vancouver Aquarium. It was a fascinating venue to host a wedding at. As we sat and listened to speeches and ate dinner the whales would be swimming by in the background. More importantly, I remember the song that signified my aunt and (new) uncle's first dance as a married couple. They choose the song “All of Me” by John Legend. I think this is the perfect love song!  I always love hearing what song a couple will choose to mark this point in one’s relationship. I think the song is a reflection of the couple’s relationship thus far and what they hope it will be in the future. I am sure for my aunt and uncle when they hear this song will forever and immediately be transported back to this moment.